Jeremy Knox
01-13-2004, 08:17 PM
Have you ever noticed the snobbery that accompanies certain people after you tell them that you're a writer? I don't know about the reaction that actors, directors or artists in general get; but when you're a writer people just get very weird if you tell them what you do. They start acting like you were bragging or something.
The first sign that they think you're an artsy fartsy jerk is when they start asking about your novel (or screenplay). It's not enough if you tell them the genre and the general story. Noooooooooooooo... they want DETAILS! They start asking for all sorts of insignificant shit and if you dare tell them something like "Well, I don't want to talk too much about it while I'm writing since you can lose your train of thought you know?" you nearly get a temper tantrum.
First of all. NO writer in his right mind describes in detail his work to people he hardly knows. That's how you preserve copyright, by not showing every asshole on the street your work.
It's bad enough when someone comes up with something nearly identical to what you were working on by coincidence, that you don't want to start having gnawing doubts ON TOP OF THAT by having shown your work around to strangers.
Then there's loaded question #2 "What do you think of your work?"
I usually say I like it very much. To which MANY people retort "Oh, so you think you're better than <insert famous writer's name>?"
What? I didn't say that... ALL I SAID WAS I LIKED IT!!!!!!!!!
What am I SUPPOSED to answer? "No, I hate my writing. It's garbage. Let's use my novel to light to fireplace." It takes a little bit of ego to be a writer because there's so many naysayers in the world.
I dunno. People are weird enough, but they get soooooooo much weirder when they know you're an artist. I don't know if it's elitism or snobbery or jealousy or what. All I know is that it's annoying.
Anyone else have experiences like this?
JK13
The first sign that they think you're an artsy fartsy jerk is when they start asking about your novel (or screenplay). It's not enough if you tell them the genre and the general story. Noooooooooooooo... they want DETAILS! They start asking for all sorts of insignificant shit and if you dare tell them something like "Well, I don't want to talk too much about it while I'm writing since you can lose your train of thought you know?" you nearly get a temper tantrum.
First of all. NO writer in his right mind describes in detail his work to people he hardly knows. That's how you preserve copyright, by not showing every asshole on the street your work.
It's bad enough when someone comes up with something nearly identical to what you were working on by coincidence, that you don't want to start having gnawing doubts ON TOP OF THAT by having shown your work around to strangers.
Then there's loaded question #2 "What do you think of your work?"
I usually say I like it very much. To which MANY people retort "Oh, so you think you're better than <insert famous writer's name>?"
What? I didn't say that... ALL I SAID WAS I LIKED IT!!!!!!!!!
What am I SUPPOSED to answer? "No, I hate my writing. It's garbage. Let's use my novel to light to fireplace." It takes a little bit of ego to be a writer because there's so many naysayers in the world.
I dunno. People are weird enough, but they get soooooooo much weirder when they know you're an artist. I don't know if it's elitism or snobbery or jealousy or what. All I know is that it's annoying.
Anyone else have experiences like this?
JK13